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A Man at Home with Himself

This is a memory of a Conference given by Timothy Radcliffe OP to the Religious of Arundel and Brighton in my early days in Hastings. He walks into the room looking like he fell out of bed in his clothes – a well worn aran sweater, the tail of his shirt hanging out, hair tossed. He tells us he intended wearing his habit but when he picked it up this morning it had too many coffee stains, so he dropped it. And I find myself in admiration of this unworldliness, this total lack of vanity! It's as if humility himself walked in the door. Vanity clings to me like a disguise, a cover for my interior shabbiness and I'm thinking that Timothy Radcliffe must have great interior strength, a man so self-possessed that he doesn't require the kind of nice exterior appearance that many of us think we need. Here is a man at home with himself. His eloquence becomes his clothing and I could have listened to him all day. He's very polished in the way he speaks, well read, very intelli...

GRACE AND MERCY AWAIT

  On September 2nd 2017 I wrote in my diary that Shankill gave birth to me in a great impulse of love by which God delivered me to Hastings where He has given me a home and haven. A place of refuge until another great moment of giving birth to love arrives. And now it's the 18th of November, 2025,  a week since I left Hastings, and I think this must be the beginning of that other great moment of giving birth to love. What it will be I have no idea but I am here.  And I am resting And I am waiting  And I am at peace As always for a new period in my life I ask God for a Word that will somehow define what lies ahead.  And what has come is the a line from Wisdom chapter 3, verse 9 which was in the first reading at Mass on my first day at home. It says, "grace and mercy await those he has chosen." Grace and mercy await!  So if I am waiting, then Grace and Mercy await me too. On my fourth day at home I woke up thinking about unfinished business, things that I had...